What is the most overrated pleasure? Why?

I’m out of the swing lifestyle now. Have been out for a decade. Glad I experienced it but one on one with someone you are totally enamored with is the best .

Most guys always aspire to have a threesome as did I . I was in the swing community for a few years when I was in a relationship with a cute , petite bi- blonde. Kind of looked like a young Ellen Degeneres. Short blonde hair, sassy. Not everyone’s cup of tea but I love the look. Now there are different shades of bi women from my observations . There are the ladies who will make out with another lady but not much more. Most the ladies who I encountered who proffered to being bi were bi from the waist up. Some were just doing it to make their guy happy. My lady was always bringing other ladies home , sometimes they would let me join, sometimes just watch and sometimes just say sorry and close the bedroom door and play one on one.

On one insane occasion we were going to play with another couple so 2 guys and 2 ladies. My girl called up a friend who we both had played with before and the other couple brought another woman with them who wanted to join in. No sooner than they all arrived another lady joined us who had originally declined but changed her mind . So.. 2 guys and 5 women. Then the other guy dropped out and watched a football game in the other room because he was having troubles getting it up. He was diabetic, also recovering from prostate cancer so not that he was grossly out of shape or anything , just a bad situation for him. Left me with 5 ladies on a King size bed. Way too much workload. They all played with one another to varying degrees but then it fell to me to give them the 10 inches I was lucky enough to have between my legs . Played with condoms of course which made it more difficult and less enjoyable so really , while it was partying like a rock star and I can proudly say it’s off my bucket list . Came 4 times that night. Once each with 3 of the ladies by oral and hand jobs and once in my girl friends pussy while she was having her boobs sucked on by one , while kissing another and another girl making out with me. Sounds better than it actually was. Lots of awkward bumping , hard to get a good position. Kind of like playing twister where everyone needs to figure out where to kneel, lay , careful not to hurt anyone .

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

She brought home her own lawyer and out of all of the threesomes that was hands down the best. Both were truly bi, more lesbian than straight. They kissed, licked , sucked and prodded one another everywhere . I joined in after over an hour and made love to both of them. I always wore condoms when we swung reserving bare back for only my girlfriend. This time at their insistence . I played bare back with both. Making love is different than just having sex. It’s more gentle , relaxed, tender. Lots of kissing and mutual touching . The grande finale for the guy is releasing in the pussy after a long session of foreplay and then just laying back and drifting off to sleep together . Back then I could reload in about 15 minutes, so gave them both a load in the pussy before collapsing . I was in the middle and each lady put their head on my chest and cuddled in and we all drifted off to sleep together . It felt awesome and to wake up the next morning that way was such a feeling . I made love to each of them individually the next morning . If that’s what all threesomes were like I would change the answer but that’s the exception to the rule. 1 time out of a hundred . That was the one threesome which got repeated several times. We all liked it.

Over the course of the 5 years we were together I would say I had almost 100 threesomes. I am good in bed and am well endowed but honestly pleasuring 2 women is quite a bit of work . i never liked giving oral, I just don’t like the taste. Ladies would sometimes call me out on it . Now if pussy tasted like chocolate, what a thought , what’s great thing that would be. Women would be happier. If cumm tasted like chocolate too , that would be a wonderful world. I suppose if I was an inconsiderate lover it would have been better. And could have just satisfied my urges and stopped. After the novelty wore off I preferred to play one on one. It was fun to watch her play with a fully bi lady , no pressure for me to pleasure them and just a visual treat for me.